EH!? I don't really get what's so weird about it. [He can't just tell her something like that and then say no offense...!] Do you dislike the prospect of an eventual marriage? Or is that part of your dislike of being held back?

The fliers sound like a good idea though! I don't really want to run or head a club like that, but it would be a lot of fun to take part in. I know a day class student who can play some instruments, too.